I took the time shortly
after February rolled over into March to turn 60. 60! The official age of
“old people” as I thought when I was a kid.
60! The age of gray and thinning
hair, age spots, aches and pains, medical poking and prodding, and loads of other
questionably fun things. I still feel
mentally as if I just got out of high school, but here I am in this old man’s
body thinking in usual Slovak (i.e. morbid) fashion that my life is ¾ over if I
live to the age my dad did.
I remember Dad driving me
to high school and then college on his way to work on many mornings. He’d often talk about when he was in high
school, and every time he did that I thought that it was SO long ago and
wondered how he remembered things seemingly so easily. Never did it occur to me that when I was 16,
Dad was only 24 years out of high school himself, yet here I am now 42 years
past when I wore my first mortarboard feeling like it was just a turn of my
head behind me.
My family made my turning
60 something to celebrate and that made the whole crawling into another decade
older overnight much easier. When I was
born, my mom and dad and I lived with my maternal grandparents and my mom’s
brother who is only 12 years my senior.
He was and is more like a big brother to me than my uncle. He lives a few streets over here in “the
shoebox” as he calls this neighborhood, still the same one we all grew up in,
and we’re still as close as anything.
For my birthday, he and his girlfriend made dinner and sent it
over. I was in tears so wonderful it
was to have my birthday dinner made with much love.
We had the first of my
three birthday cakes that evening at Mom’s house as per family tradition. It was a chocolate cheesecake! We were able to coax Mom, who usually avoids
having her picture taken at all costs, to take a picture of me on this
noteworthy occasion. I’m blessed to
have her smiling next to me all these years later.
My official birthday
party was two days later on Saturday.
My kids had the great idea of having me pose for cake smash
pictures. The cake smash concept
started with people putting their infants in front of their first birthday
cakes and letting the little buggers go wild, digging into their cakes and
smearing them all over their tiny faces with great glee. The idea spread in time to having 30 year
old women doing the same to their birthday cakes. Well, why not a 60 year old man my daughters wondered. My elder girl who manages a FastSigns
franchise and is a free lance photographer got it all together while my younger
daughter made the cake for me to have fun with. I think it turned out rather well!
After that it was time to
get cleaned up and head to the party my family hosted in my honor at a local
restaurant. My younger girl got me this
shirt to wear to the party and I loved it.
I have much affection for the poop emoji!
I had a wonderful time
with close family and friends. We had a
superb dinner and nobody was in a hurry to leave so I had plenty of time to
visit with everybody at leisure and to share favorite memories with all of
them.
The old man with his sweet daughters.
Young friends make turning old a lot easier. Well, okay - younger by one or two years at least.
With everybody’s generous
gifts I was able to get one of the very best Plantronics Bluetooth headsets to
use when I’m on the scooter. I’m now
able once again (after being without this feature for a few years when my
favorite Motorola cell phones took out the auto answer option) to take calls
when I’m scootering without having to take a hand off the handlebar to wriggle
it under my helmet and press the answer button. Simply by saying, “Answer,” I can take an incoming call and just
as easily ignore one with a verbal command.
I love them all for
making turning 60 as painless as they possibly could. In the week that’s passed since then I’ve found myself lamenting
my age just a little to myself, but all in all I can’t complain. There’s much to live for and now that every
day’s a Saturday I don’t know that I’ve ever had a better time. Now all I need is for March to stop feeling
like January and for the snow to stop falling every couple of days so I can get
back on the Piaggio and ride to my heart’s content.